I Hate that title. Honestly, it is an awful title to have. Still, for me personally, to not embrace it would be to stick to the taboo that you shouldn't talk about pregnancy loss, about miscarriage, about stillbirth, or about infant death. All of those things are so ugly, so sad, so miserable. Wouldn't it be better if we never talked about them?
The answer to that is a resounding NO!!! Why? Why should we talk about things so sad? For the same reason that we approach any terrible topic. The people suffering should not be left alone simply because it is uncomfortable for the rest of the world to mention, to face, to discuss.
While I wouldn't choose to be a part of this baby loss community, I cannot ever put into words the support and love that I have found here. Support that I was not finding anywhere else, but that I hope and pray I share with others for the rest of my life. I'd love for it never to be a new person, but that dream just isn't reality, so as long as there are bereaved mommies and daddies, who are missing their babies, there will be me and this community helping to be their voice.
Join us tonight at 7:00pm for the wave of light to honor all of the babies lost too soon! Sending love to Layla Marie and Michael from Mommy, Daddy, and Little Sister straight to Heaven!
**Stay tuned for information about a support group I'm trying to get started in Shreveport for BLMs and IF sufferers**
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