We now know that our birthmother went in yesterday to a different hospital and had the baby with a different doctor, while telling us that they had postponed the induction until Friday.
We aren't sure where we stand or what will happen from here. I know I'm a basketcase and she knows that I know this has all happened, but I can't communicate with her at all.
Please just continue to pray for us and for them, as this is a horrific situation that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. I don't know what else to say at this point. I will try to update later.
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SAYING GOODBYE....
10 months ago
I have had a pit in my stomach since I read your post on facebook. Words can't express how sad I am for you right now, it just shouldn't be this hard to have a baby in your arms! Why can't people not be so selfish and think of what is best for the baby and all involved. My thoughts and prayers are with you Deni. It might be my crazy hormones but I can't stop the tears....
ReplyDeleteI've been thinking of you all day. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this, and I'm so sorry that this is so out of your control. And although I understand that this is the hardest thing the birthmother will ever have to do, I wish you didn't have to deal with the dishonesty of the situation.
ReplyDeletePlease keep us all posted. Sending you lots of bloggy hugs.
My Kindred Spirit,
ReplyDelete*tears*, as my heart is broken along side of yours. I only wish I were closer to come to you and give you the Hug you need and to reassure you that you WILL be a Mother to an Earthly Child....I BELIEVE that with all my heart. I don't know why bad things have to happen to such wonderful people and am perplexed by this situation, as you and Sean gave this baby mama everything. You gave her your heart and trusted in her. I'm just so broken and upset that she has hurt you. Yet, I remain faithful and pray for change of heart from her and pray that she do the right thing for this child.
Above and beyond anthing else, I vow to walk this road with you, step by step, wherever it leads us. We can conquer anything "Together", as we are the Fab 5! And, one kindred spirit would never desert another :)
Praying for you always
Love you to the MOON & BACK!
xoxo
your kindred spirit
I have been thinking of you for days. I woke up this morning thinking today was the day you were meeting Cala. I am devastated to hear this. I am so sorry. I am still holding on to hope that Cala will be coming home with you.
ReplyDeleteI am so full of sadness for you, and I hate to say this, but anger at the birthmom. I am praying that you will have that baby in your arms very soon and that whatever is happening is minor. I'll keep praying for you all day.
ReplyDeleteI will be keeping you in prayer. I am so sorry about this. ((HUGS)) Please know that I care.
ReplyDeleteI am so sad for you and Sean, Deni. I am praying fervently that you will have that baby in your arms soon. I love you!
ReplyDeleteOh how I am praying for this whole situation right now...
ReplyDeleteI'm praying, Deni, and sending you love. xxx
ReplyDeleteBeen thinking of you all day long. I cannot believe this news and can't imagine how you must be feeling. Praying that this will soon be resolved and that she will be in your arms very soon. Sending tons of love and support your way.
ReplyDeleteOh I am so terribly sorry sweet friend. My heart breaks for you guys! I will be praying!! Hugs to you!
ReplyDeleteI can't stop thinking about you Deni and will keep praying for you!!!!!
ReplyDeletePraying hard for you Deni! Praying that the birth mom makes the best decision for Cala. Hugs to you my friend.
ReplyDeleteDeni, you and Sean are constantly in me and Mike's thoughts and prayers, I am praying praying praying that this little girl gets to call you Mommy, and in the same breath Im heartbroken baby mama did this. As Andrea says, we are here to walk this road with you, no matter what, please lean on us if you need to, as we are ALWAYS here for you. I love you xxx
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that this is happening. I'm heart broken for you but I'm going to stay hopeful as well and keep praying fervently.
ReplyDeleteJust no words but so many, many prayers from me and others whom I've just asked to lift my sweet mommy friends...you are surrounded with prayer and hope and I will have you and birth family on my mind and heart all night...
ReplyDeleteMuch love and prayers for a miracle!
I don't know what to say other than I love you & I'm so sorry. I am praying for you and Sean. I wish I could reach out & give you a hug.
ReplyDeleteI came to your blog from a fellow blogger...
ReplyDeleteI will be praying for you and your family. I can't imagine the anxiety and heartbreak that you must be going through right now! Huge ((HUGS))! It shouldn't be this hard!
I am so sorry Deni, my heart is just breaking for you. I am still hoping and praying that Cala will go home with you. Keeping you all in prayer and sending much love your way. ((HUGS))
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry Deni! I have been thinking about you, Sean, and baby Cala all day. I will keep praying that things will turn out right and she will go home with you.
ReplyDeleteDeni and Sean, Bryan and I are so heartbroken for you. We are praying constantly for you. If there is anything, and I mean anything, that we can do for you, please let us know. We love you both very much.
ReplyDeleteBaby Mama, if you are reading this, let me tell you about my friend, Deni. We became the BEST of friends when we were in Middle School. For 3 years we were completely inseparable! We did everything together and if she wasn’t at my house…I was at hers. So, this is a friendship that is going on about 20 years, now. She has never been anything but a loyal friend to me and I am so lucky to still have her as a friend after all these years! I know Deni. Therefore, I know that you couldn’t choose a better woman to be the mother of your child. You, Baby Mama, are lucky that you have Deni as an option. I have no doubt in my mind that Deni will be a wonderful mother. Deni is thoughtful, sweet, compassionate, supportive, generous, understanding, caring, uplifting, reassuring, funny, patient, kind, accepting, honest, optimistic, dependable, committed, unselfish, even tempered, creative and strong. She is genuine. She is a wonderful listener and she is non-judgmental. She is dedicated, loving and nurturing. She is Godly. She has so much love to give. She will love that child for all of eternity. She already does.
ReplyDeleteThe best gift you could ever give your child would be to give her Deni, as a mother. That would make your baby the luckiest baby in the world.
Oh you poor thing. And the mama too. My heart is just breaking for both of you and I am praying that all is resolved for the best soon. You must be going totally nutz....I am soooo sorry!
ReplyDeleteOh no! I'm so sorry, and I'm thinking of you and hoping things are cleared up soon...
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